Food: Yours, Mine and Ours.
Don’t eat someone else’s food without asking. If you do “borrow” their
favorite snack food, tell them and then replace it quickly. In order to
keep moochers from accidentally eating your food try writing your name
on the containers with a marker. Another way is to assign everyone his
or her own food cabinet. This is my preferred method. Choose what works
best for the house. As far as condiments go, everyone should chip in; otherwise
you’ll have two or three of everything in the fridge and no room
for beer and cheese wiz.
Guests or Pests
If you have roommates you can also be sure their significant others and
best friends will always be around unless you come up with some house
rules for guests. It's one thing to have boyfriends spend the night
once a week, it’s another for them to stay every night, eat your
food, use your phone, computer and never help with the household chores.
This is a major annoyance and must be dealt with before it happens.
The best way to handle the situation is to lay out the ground rules
for overnight and weekend guests with your roommates in the pre-nup.
Personally, I always feel they can stay over as much as my roommate stays
over at their house as long as they're respectful of my space. That means
replacing all my snacks they chow down and cleaning up after themselves.
Noise
Be respectful. There’s a time for cranking up the tunes but not
every night. Even if your roommates are into it your neighbors may not
be. And unless you live in a soundproof apartment or dorm, 10p during
the week is a good cutoff time for noise too loud to study or sleep.
Midnight on the weekends.
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