Wait For What?
For fun. For play. For foreplay. Foreplay is waiting. But, it is waiting with a purpose. Waiting need not mean pleasure denied, only pleasure delayed. And, as those experienced in foreplay know, the delay is itself quite pleasurable. In the context of a relationship, foreplay is called courtship. Courtship is a time to develop friendship and an intimate knowledge of another. This time, in it's way, is as exciting and gratifying as any sex.
I'm Only Human
As are we all. And you can't be expected to go without. Well, assuming you are human, you've been given two good hands, or one, or at the very least a shower massage. Try masturbation. It's safe, fun, and as Woody Allen once said, "it's sex with someone you love." While you're waiting for trust to develop, ease your desires with self-love.
So Tell Me. When Can I...You Know
When is the right time for sex to enter a relationship? After friendship has entered and established a stronghold. And not before. Only friendship encompasses all the qualities necessary for great, healthy sex-trust and respect, both for another and yourself. Sex has a way of intertwining body and soul for evermore. Once you've slept with another, your life becomes involved with theirs in ways which cannot be undone neatly. If the time comes when it must be undone, it is best that it be with a friend, one whom you know, trust and respect.
