Thank you, I guess
You've received thank-you
notes yourself. The ones that say, “Thank
you for your generous gift!” probably raise a flag in your mind. “This
person wrote the same thing to the 128 other people at that wedding,” you
think. And you're probably correct.
Writing generic thank-yous saves time and brainpower; you've probably
written them yourself once or twice. However, to the reader, it is unlikely
that this kind of note portrays more than just a formality. Being general
in your note is a quick way to turn off the reader… the same person who
was kind enough to give you his money/time/thoughtfulness.
Other things you should avoid doing are: asking where the gift was purchased
(if you have a return/exchange in mind, keep it to yourself!); telling
the person if you received duplicates of the gift he gave you (don't
make a guy feel unoriginal); waiting months since the gift was delivered
to thank the person; including other information about yourself and your
life in the note (save that for a personal letter); and over-stating
your thanks (saying things like “You are a lifesaver!” if all he did
was let you borrow his vacuum).
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